The alluring world of French courtesans in 19th-century Paris – a love story for Valentine's Day

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Valentine's Day is the perfect time to celebrate love, and what better way to do that than by exploring the alluring world of French courtesans in 19th-century Paris? This blog post will be an exploration of the glamour, opulence and intrigue that surrounded French courtesans as they charmed, enticed and captivated the men of Paris. From their grand lifestyles, lavish brothels, and unique subculture, French courtesans were a force to be reckoned with in 19th-century France. Happy Valentine's Day! Let us take a moment to appreciate the alluring world of French courtesans in 19th-century Paris. These women, who operated out of the city's many brothels, were known for their beauty, intelligence, and grace. They captivated the hearts of many, including some of France's most famous lovers. As we celebrate the day of love, it is important to remember the powerful stories of these incredible women in Paris.

What is a courtesan?
A courtesan was a high-class prostitute - a mistress or kept woman. They were loved on the side by both kings and queens,  nobility, and anyone with a lot of money but loving in return could cause there demise so hearts were kept locked up.  They provided company and sexual gratification. In truth, they likely held more power over the country than any ruling class. It was a family biz as many courtesans were often trained by their mothers - everyone wanted a piece of gold to call their very own.  These women captivated crowds as celebrities but not just anyone could be one; a lady had to have breeding and charm in order to maintain an aristocratic appearance, especially if she was dealing with royalty.

Mademoiselle Madame Comtesse Lafayette is often cited as one of the most famous courtesans from this era; she used her powers of manipulation and wit to secure herself a powerful position within royal circles. Her lavish lifestyle captivated audiences and her name inspired romantic notions in the minds of her admirers. She became so influential that she even persuaded General Lafayette to use his influence at court to gain special privileges for her clients. By being an intimate companion to some of France’s most powerful men, she acquired wealth, fame, and status within society that could not be obtained otherwise. Although her profession was frowned upon, her beauty and smarts made her someone whom everyone wanted to know—and she knew it!

How did courtesans become popular in France? 
Being a courtesan was a lucrative and coveted position. Fancy apartments, parties with the elite, and relationships with high-profile clients. In fact, they became so popular that French officers created 'The Book of Courtesans' to track their every move.  Mademoiselle Madame Comtesse Lafayette were among the most popular courtesans of this time period. The Comtesse de Lafayette, who lived from 1780-1860, is known as one of the most beautiful courtesans of her time. She was said to have had numerous affairs with some of the most prominent men of France during this era, including King Louis XVIII. Mademoiselle Madame Comtesse Lafayette used her charm and wit to secure her own fortune, along with the admiration and loyalty of many wealthy suitors. She often traveled throughout Europe to satisfy her cravings for luxury and pleasure, becoming well-known for her exquisite taste and elaborate events. The Comtesse de Lafayette also famously befriended writer Alexandre Dumas, often attending his private gatherings at his country home near Versailles.

Who were some of the most famous courtesans in Paris?
Marie Duplessis,  Blanche D’Antigny,  Madam de Pompadour, La Paiva,  Comtesse Valtesse de la Bigne,  and Hortense Schneider were some of the most famous courtesans in 19th century Paris. Mademoiselle Duplessis was an opera singer and socialite who had a string of high-profile lovers. She was said to have had affairs with the Duke of Orleans, Alexandre Dumas the Younger, and Georges Sand. Blanche d'Antigny was a beloved figure in the city who went by the nickname "La Belle Hollandaise." She became famous after being painted by numerous famous painters such as Eugène Delacroix. Madame de Pompadour was one of King Louis XV's most famous mistresses and was known as the “official chief mistress” at the Versailles Court. Another well-known courtesan was La Paiva who earned her fortune by entertaining wealthy men with her opulent home and luxurious dinner parties.
 
What was life like for a courtesan in 19th-century Paris?
Many were treated like celebrities. Posh apartments, never-ending feasts, and champagne-filled nights. Painted by artists like Manet, Degas, and Toulouse Lautrec. Immortalized in word by Charles Baudelaire, Victor Hugo, and  Emile Zola. Is this a life I would've chosen? I would have definitely given it good thought. Salon, high society, and painted nails. Coiffered hair for both myself and my resident pets. Intelligent conversation, beautiful things, and the appearance of power and respect. Yes, please.  Mademoiselle Lafayette had all that and more! Her fame preceded her everywhere she went as one of the most sought-after courtesans in Paris at the time. Rumor had it that she was once courted by the Comtesse de Flandre herself! Her status attracted some of the wealthiest men in Europe with her captivating charm and wit. In 1875 she opened a luxurious salon at 7 Rue Nôtre Dame des Champs where she entertained an exclusive guest list of aristocrats, poets, and other elite members of society. While she was viewed as an object of desire by some men, she was respected and admired as an intellectual madame to many others. Mademoiselle Lafayette’s influence grew as her popularity increased among France’s upper echelons. She continued to amass wealth and renown as one of Paris’s top courtesans until her death in 1898 at the age of fifty-two.